In this third episode of Flesh ‘N Bold, we explore more about how Black daughters are raised in America and how it is different from raising Black sons. Again we turn to our own parents to shed light on how they approached this. Also, it’s Kentucky Derby season and since Nia was born in Kentucky, we talk about the controversial song and why this and other things prompted our family to leave the state. Tune in and find out!

Show notes:

The Complicated Legacy of ‘My Old Kentucky Home’ by Alex Lubet and Steven Lubet

Gendered Racial Socialization in Black Families: Mothers’ Beliefs, Approaches, and Advocacy by Dr. Alea Rhys Holman

My Old Kentucky Home sung by Black Face Perfomer Al Joson (Creative Commons)

• Articles about Black Women & R. Kelly

  • R. Kelly story makes us realize that no one cares about black women by Soraya Nadia McDonald

  • Black women led the charge against R. Kelly. They’re part of a long tradition by Danielle McGuire

  • #MuteRKelly: Black Women and Girls Deserve Safety by Kimberle Crenhshaw

We didn’t get to say our thank yous due to the length of the podcast, so huge thanks to Mom and Dad, our fantastic editor, Wayne Garris, and our listeners.

Producers: Nevin J. Heard and Nia J. Heard-Garris

Editor: Wayne D. Garris, JD

Music: “Clay”; “LA”; “Sneak Chase” by Podington Bear