News flash.... We teach people how to treats us. 

Our standards and our way of being let others know what our expectations are and when we realize that we aren't being treated in the way that we want, it's time to raise those standards. Will everyone instantly adhere to them. Likely not, but at least you now get the choice to decide who you want to work with and have relationships with from a place of empowerment. 

Because here is the real kicker. We expect people to adhere to standards that we have NEVER communicated. Invisible standards. We are setting up others and honestly ourselves for failure. No one gets your best (not you, your family, your clients) when we allow ourselves to live without standards and when we behave like a dustpan, cleaning up the messes around us instead of behaving like the broom thats in charge. 

You deserve more for yourself and so do your clients and your friends and family. 

Setting these standards will benefit everyone. So start small my friends. Be the broom. Be in charge of your life and your business. And have a freaking awesome day. xoxoxo.