This is a little insight to my once marriage and when I realized it was build out of convenience.
When I first entered my marriage, as many of us do, I never thought I would be getting a divorce.
However, my whole marriage was built on convenience and the thing about convenience is that it is like a nice guy. It is looking for the fastest and easiest reward without doing any work.
So here are 8 signs you are in a relationship only for the convenience of having one.
1. You’re scared to be alone
2. You love your life with them more than you love them (should have been my first clue because I loved our life but felt lonely constantly)
3. There is always a not quite right feeling lingering
4. You’re more friends than lovers
5. Cheating doesn’t seem so bad ( for me this is always a no no)
6. You rather be alone than with them
7. They treat you poorly and you tolerate it because its just easier
8. They don’t add anything to your life. They don’t push you to be better and you don’t want to grow with them. <- I've said how important this is and will say it over and over.