Gabriela Maldonado-Montano. If we have been involved in self-help or spirituality, including the 3 Principles, we may feel as though our love, and other relationships should be just about "perfect" by now. Intimate and close, family relationships, however, are often where the "rubber meets the road" in terms of our egos, and our understanding. Ami & Gabby share their personal experiences with REAL-ationship, and the insights and changes sparked by the coming together of separate realities.