Love, can often come from a selfish place, even when it doesn't appear to be so.  But can we spot the difference between real love and false love?  T&A Talk with Dr. Richard Cookerly, relational psychotherapist and co-author of the book, Real Love False Love on the difference between the two, why learning real love can literally save our lives, and exactly how to go about changing our love practices.  A fascinating examination of the ways the American culture has learned to love and how to go about changing it.  Check out Dr. Cookerly's work at www.whatislovedrcookerly.com