Sometimes you meet a person and know they have a story that should be shared. And that’s what happened with me and Dan MacQueen.

I hesitated to put resiliency in the title because the word has been almost ruined due to the hyperbolic nature of our click-bait world. Organizations preach “resiliency,” but it’s more of a “barrel forward” rather than a “be strong and bounce back” type of resiliency. Dan has real resilience.

We THINK we work hard. We THINK we have problems. We THINK our challenges are insurmountable and frustrating. But sometimes, when we hear a story like Dan’s, we recognize that we have things pretty good.

Dan’s got gems. From his commentary on accountability to “post-traumatic growth;” from constructive optimism to screaming, “Can’t you see I’m learning here!?” – there is much to think about and translate to your world after hearing his story.

This is more than just a change in mindset. I’d say it’s a change in being. Hopefully, the lessons you can pull from this episode can make change without having to go through trauma like Dan’s.

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Um, they bother me because I don’t feel like they have the proper context and, um, they don’t really hit the mark in the way that they should. And so this week’s guest is going to teach us in a very real way what resiliency is. And I think it’s gonna be a fantastic level of perspective and a lot to learn. I’ve had a, a couple quick conversations with him. I’ve learned a lot already.

I’m very happy to have here today, Dan McQueen. Dan, welcome to the Bellwether Hub Podcast. Thank you so much for having me. So I want, Dan’s got a story, which is unlike stories you’ve heard before. So Dan, I want you to cue everything up. We’re gonna start with the story, share your story so that we can then pepper you with questions afterward. But we need that context because it’s, uh, it’s pretty wild ride.

So I’m gonna turn it over to you. Please tell your story. Thanks Jim. So, hello everyone. My name’s Dan McQueen. Uh, until recently I was living in London, Jolly old. I moved back in September, but the story kind of takes place in 2014. I was having these headaches that got worse over a few weeks. I went to Annie twice. For those of you don’t know, Annie is accident emergency in the uk.

You know, thinking these headaches were kind of serious. I should get them checked out. And I was told, Oh, no, no, they seem like they’re vertigo. We’ve gotten some tests, they don’t seem that serious. We’ll send you home. They gave me some pills and they sent me home for that. But they told me on the way out if my headaches continued to get them checked at an optometrist, she’s like, Okay, sure, whatever.

So the headaches persisted. They were getting real bad and I decided, You know what, I’m gonna get my eyes checked at an optometrist. Midway through the exam, he stopped it, which is not a casual move. He gave me a sealed envelope, also not a casual move, and told me to go directly to Morfield Hospital, which I did. Sort of, I stopped at home first to grab a book, Jack Richard book, actually by Lee Child.

Uh, my phone charger, some food I want somebody to eat and some supplies. But I was determinated to the bottom of what was happening with us. So Morefield Hospital turned into tear. Cross turned into, I was having brain surgery the next day because I had a non-cancerous cyst in my brain that needed to be operated on. So zero to 60 in, in a matter of hours, I’m deciding that I’m having brain tomorrow.

You know, I, I call my manager, message your friends, like, Hey, I’m having this tomorrow. Guess I won’t be in Monday. Messaged my mom and she just retired. So she was able to come to London. So on June 21st, 2014, I was on the operating table. My mom was in the air flying to London, Something went wrong and had a massive bleeding. The brain of brain hemorrhage. I think the cyst burst when they operated.

So my mom lands and finds them in critical condition. I was in a coma for four weeks. What was in and outta consciousness for months after that, when all was said and done, I was learning how to walk, talk, and smile again. So, needless to say, this kind of rocked my world and rocked my family’s world. Um, I remember waking up in the hospital with my brother, mom and dad around me, and, and I go, I can’t talk.

Cause I had a breathing tube removed and I couldn’t talk. And I go, Gimme a pen and paper. I write down, I point at my brother, I go, You point down. And I write down the pen and paper. I go, Get me out of here to my brother because I didn’t think I had any insurance for this stuff. And I was thinking, you know, he’ll bust me outta here. Let’s get outta here.

So needless to say he didn’t, and thank goodness he didn’t. Cause I was in the hospital for months after that. But that’s how things all kicked off for me, Jim, which is, so I could take this in many different directions. Um, one is the perspective on, obviously you didn’t plan for this and obviously this kind of jacked up whatever plans you had eight years ago, and that’s one, right? We never know when something like this could potentially happen.

But two is the recovery, right? I mean, uh, a bleeding in the brain, learning to walk, learning to talk, learning to smile again, and being able to then build a business, get back with your family, build a life, do all of these things after. I wanna talk about both of those. Um, where do you want , where do you wanna start? Talk to me first about the recovery, because if you’re sitting in the hospital for months, um, obviously this is a, so you’re in a coma for a month in and outta consciousness for months.

Recovery has to be intense. Talk to me a little bit about that. Yeah, for sure. So, you know, I was, my leg frozen at an angle in the icu, the intensive carry unit. So my left leg was essentially jacked up and I couldn’t use it. I couldn’t go ahead and walk. I was in a wheelchair, right? So getting in from the bed to the wheelchair took 30 minutes, then 25, then 20 and 15, then then 10, then seven and six and eight, then 10, then five.

Everything was difficult. Everything was hard. Earned wins. And it took forever to end that bloody wheelchair. But you keep chipping away at this. And then I was transferable to the Wilson Rehab Center. I remember telling my dad when this ha...