Allowing important boundaries to be crossed will eventually lead a person down the path of bitterness. So many times we may allow others to continue holding our hands despite having not made it clear to us why they continue holding on.

This continuous cycle hit hard on the love nerves we graciously and gloriously possess causing us to grow weary of love and question its very existence.

There are several steps you can take.

Listen to this episode for more.

The most cherished thing through the endless ages can also be a source of pain and regret to others, however, learning to live with the scars and allowing others to apply the balm of healing on us, is a different story. Others may live with the regret and not allow a single soul in, whereas, others may allow another in, and rub their regret onto an innocent soul. Let us learn together through this 'The Love In Bloom' series as we explore the beauty and restrictions of love.....but above it all, the warmth of allowing love to come into your love softly like a cool sparkling stream.

Death, loss, unemployment, failed marriages, singleness, illness and many other misfortunes are often blamed on other people as the cause: a very unfortunate situation in most African households.

Juju, voodoo, and prophecies of doom are destroying homes and relationships.

No matter how true, if we are not careful, we are bound to have blood on our hands likewise.

Walking away from something you've known and loved has pain one cannot possibly fathom. Not just the pain, that often comes with drama.

When a friendship turns sour, you need a breather, a break or an entire walking far and away.

How do you do that?

Let's hear.

Do boundaries exist in friendship? In this episode, we talk about how to create and maintain a healthy boundaries in our friendships without fear of losing each other.

Friendships can have a massive impact on our health and well-being but it is not always easy to develop and maintain friendships.These social connections can prove to be tricky with time and can serve as a source of agony if not handled right.

Whether it's two friends, three or a group, the definition of what everyone is should be clear.

In pain, we often question the Deity.

God's very existence is questioned in a lot of ways when death knocks on our doors.

His good plan may not make sense at the point of death.

In this episode we are reminded that God is real, He is there in the pain as much as He is, in the joy.

It is okay to grieve the loss of a loved one.

No, it is not a sign of unholiness or spiritual weakness.

In so many instances we read in the Bible of people who mourned and cursed the day of their births; these were righteous people, not pagans yet they still found it necessary to vocalise their pain.

In a world that has self-righteous people who disdain excessive grief, it is important to remember that even Christ himself grieved in ways we can never understand.

Comfort is good, but good intentions may sometimes be ill-received or misunderstood.

The consideration that is put in comforting a grieving person should not be underestimated, for it is in our words that walls of grief are broken down or walls of hopelessness and bitterness are built back up.

It is appointed for all people to die, it is another for those people to accept this truth.

Death is a natural process, we all must go through; Christian or not. It is in accepting and making peace with the fact that, it will knock on your door when you least expect it and sometimes, in the most unimaginable way.