Hey real ones, in this episode of Real with Rayo, I speak with Mel Anyamene — founder of Out of Office Collective, a luxury travel community for young professionals and creatives — about the real cost of community and why IRL connection matters more than ever.

We explore the shift from online engagement to in-person belonging, the rise of small but deeply engaged communities, and why brands and creators are prioritising connection over convenience. Mel shares her journey building OOOC, her playbook for cultivating community, and how finding your people can bring you closer to your ikigai (purpose).

Perfect for anyone interested in community building, the creator economy, modern friendship, luxury travel, and meaningful connection.

You can join the OOOC here: https://bio.site/outofofficecollective

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Rayo

Hey real ones, from a kitchen table idea to shelves in Selfridges and Ocado, Niyi Olopade has built Novice Kitchen into one of the coolest condiment brands in the UK. In this episode, we dive into his journey of turning curiosity into craft, the realities of fundraising and retail, and how food can be a tool for storytelling, healing, and connection. Niyi shares what it means to grow from novice to master in entrepreneurship, creativity, and life.

You can check out Novice Kitchen here: www.thenovicekitchen.com

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Rayo

Hey real ones, In this episode, I dive into the Butterfly Effect and how the smallest choices shape our biggest outcomes. I share why the process itself is the journey — even when it feels lonely, messy, or uncertain — and why chasing “one big thing” often keeps us stuck. We’ll talk about trusting your intuition in the building phase, leaning into small daily actions, and finding meaning in the waiting season. If you’ve ever wondered whether your effort really matters, this conversation is your reminder that every little step counts.

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Rayo

Hey real ones, In this episode, British-Nigerian rapper DEELA breaks down how she’s built her bold personal brand — from her Lagos roots to global co-signs like Flo Milli and Baby Keem — and the fearless choices shaping her music, visuals, and identity.

She also plays my Wicked Babe or Good Girl game, shares truths every creative needs to hear, and reveals her secrets to navigating visibility and standing out as an independent artist.

Let me know how this episode lands for you.

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Love,

Rayo

Hey real ones - ever feel like you’re doing all the right things but nothing’s happening? Yeah, same.

This episode is for anyone navigating a season of slow growth, silent effort, or uncertainty.

I’m diving into the Invisible String Theory — the idea that what’s meant for you is already connected to you — and exploring how this relates to invisible effort, delayed gratification, and trusting the process even when nothing seems to be happening.

If you’ve been building in silence, working on yourself, or feeling stuck… this is your reminder that it’s still working.

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Rayo

Hey Real Ones, In this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant Tosin Victoria (aka Baby Girl Tos) — a content creator known for her hilarious, relatable, and entertaining videos on YouTube. I genuinely see her as a trailblazing creative, and in this conversation, we dive into her comeback story and what it really takes to find creative success.

We talk about the highs and lows — from burnout to resets, navigating the journey, and reigniting your spark. If you’re a creative or just in need of some inspiration, this one’s for you.

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Watch Tosin’s channel:

🔗 youtube.com/@tosvictoria

Love,

Rayo

Hey real ones, I’m so excited to have Tiwa on the podcast! Someone I truly admire for her purposeful, powerful work in helping people build unshakable confidence.

Dating in today’s world can feel like a performance — where confidence is tested, ghosting is normalised, and rejection feels personal. In this episode, we discuss how we stay rooted in our worth while navigating love, dating apps, and everything in between.

Whether you’re in a situationship, healing from heartbreak, or just figuring it all out, this one’s for you. You matter, simply because you exist. Let’s get into it.

Tiwa’s website: https://www.confidentandkillingit.com

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Rayo

Hey real ones,

I had the honour of interviewing my mum and we swapped stories about life at the same age. We talk about her move to Singapore (where she’s lived for nearly 9 years), what she’s learned about love, marriage, ambition and purpose, and how her journey from corporate to coaching shaped the woman she is today.

We also get into how dreams evolve over time, and what it really takes to build a life that feels meaningful. If you’re navigating career questions, romantic uncertainty, or just feeling the pressure to have it all figured out — this one might offer the perspective you didn’t know you needed.

I’d love to hear how it landed for you — DM me or drop a comment.

Mum’s coaching service: https://acres.plus/

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Rayo

Hey real ones — this was such a refreshing episode to record. It felt good to speak transparently with you.

Radical optimism isn’t fluffy or delusional. It’s a bold, intentional choice to believe in the possibility of good — even when life gives you every reason not to. It’s about resilience, faith, and vision.

In this episode, I share how I’m choosing to adopt this mindset, despite receiving disappointing news and facing waves of shame. I also reflect on lyrics that keep me grounded, like “Looking in the mirror, I thank God for what I’m about to be” (Icy Girl, Saweetie) and “Negative thoughts don’t enter my inner matrix” (Lemon Pepper Freestyle, Drake).

I’d love to hear how this landed for you — DM me or drop a comment.

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Love,

Rayo

Hey real ones, Are you making excuses when you’re called to be of service or are you just unintentionally self-absorbed?

It’s not an easy question — but it’s a real one.

In this episode, I explore the tension between showing up for others, protecting your peace and the loneliness epidemic. Can we do both? Or does one always cost the other?

If you’ve ever felt torn between pouring into people and pulling back for yourself, this one’s for you. 💭

And as always, I want to hear your thoughts — DM me or drop a comment.

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