Whether the one WHO is there, either helping you or discouraging you...both are essential factor in achieving your goal.

You take all the discouraging words...put them together and make them your fire...fire to burn so much passion inside you in molding yourself to get to the point that 

you only see yourself going forward.

And the people who are there helping you, even the smallest gesture of pushing you to do it, never ignore...rather, gather them all and roll them to your mind to

make a good weaving of different plans to create the ultimate success of your dreams.