In this episode we are discussing the topic of In-Laws or Out-Laws and the many reasons that it is important to keep most people OUT of your marriage.
As you and your spouse become one, you each bring family, friends, and foes with you, but you must decide how much access to give when it comes to your marriage.

We talk about our personal experiences when it comes to disagreements, finances, and discipline of children and how the decision to keep others OUT has helped us grow as a couple.

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In today's episode we are calling out the many misconceptions that keep so many people from desiring marriage.
Marriage is a beautiful union between two individuals, but the world would have you believe that it is either supposed to solve all of your problems or create more problems than it is worth.  Both of these statements are just untrue.
Marriage is not the solution to the broken parts of your dating relationship but it also is not meant to sift all of the excitement out of your intimacy!
Listen in as we share from firsthand experiences how marriage is what you make of it!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 18

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On today’s episode, we are talking more about quality over quantity in your marriage. It’s not about how often you do things, but how intentional you are in doing them. Busy schedules can make it hard to have a lot of time to spend together, but when you really focus your time on making that time quality time, it can really help your marriage. It’s important to spend that quality time together to strengthen and nurture your marriage. Tune in!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 17

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In this episode, we are talking all about how health is wealth. There are so many different pieces of health - physical, mental, financial. Being rich is not the sole measure of wealth - living a life of value and taking care of yourself is what makes you truly wealthy. Prioritize your health in all areas of your life. Tune in to hear more!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 16

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In this episode we talk more about the importance of being lovers and friends. Friendship is crucial in a marriage and it is so important for a healthy and lasting marriage. Tune in to hear more as we discuss this topic of being both lovers and friends today!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 15

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In this episode, we are bringing special guests on the show -- our kids! You'll get to hear our kids' perspectives as we dive into parenting,  setting an example, faith, and more! Tune in to hear more!
 

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 14

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In this episode of the Really the Rays,  we dive into the topic of love and how it covers a multitude of things in a relationship and marriage. We reference a scripture from 1 Peter 4:8 that emphasizes the importance of continuing to love one another fervently, even in the face of faults and disagreements. We discuss the challenge of loving someone when you're angry with them, but highlight the power of love to throw a veil over these faults.  More than anything we want you to cover their issues with love and forgiveness in order to build a lasting relationship in your marriage. Tune in for more insights and real talk about the realities of marriage!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 13

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On this episode, we talk about how we just celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary and we dive into the topic of why the grass looks greener in other people's marriages. We discuss the dangers of comparing your marriage to others and how it can be misleading since you don't know the work and sacrifices that other couples have put in. It is so important to focus on your own marriage and put in the work to make it thrive! Tune in to hear more!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 12

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Welcome back! On today’s episode we are sharing with you something fun - we are doing a husband and wife Q&A! Join us as we give you our real and honest answers to these questions that we are asking each other! As always, we also have a real question from a real listener that we answer today! This was a fun episode and we can’t wait for you to take a listen!

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SHOW NOTES: Episode 11

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Welcome back to another episode of the Really the Rays Podcast! On the tenth episode of the podcast, we are sharing with you 10 scriptures that have been beneficial to our marriage. We explain each one of these and how they have helped us in hopes that these scriptures will help you too. We also have a real question from a real listener that we answer today. This was a great episode and we can’t wait for you to take a listen!


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SHOW NOTES: Episode 10

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