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Reclaiming Yourself in Midlife: The Art of Imperfect Adulting


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Reclaiming Yourself in Midlife: The Art of Imperfect Adulting (with Amy Stone)

Guest: Amy Stone — endurance athlete, Stepfamily Strategist, and host of The Art of Imperfect Adulting podcast
Episode summary

Who are you when the roles shift? In this candid, funny, and deeply practical conversation, Amy Stone shares how a surprising personality test result (“nurturer” 😳) sparked a midlife remix—plus what empty nesting, buying spoons (again), and seven Ironman finishes taught her about identity, grit, and choosing what’s next. We dig into reclaiming yourself without trying to rewind to 25, breadcrumbing your way back to desire, and navigating blended-family dynamics with far less self-judgment and a lot more grace.

If you’ve ever asked, “Who am I now?”, this one’s for you.

In this episode, you’ll learn
  • Why your personality “type” can change with your season—and what to do when it does

  • A simple, compassionate way to rediscover what you want (even if nothing comes up at first)

  • How to approach empty nest without losing yourself (yes, even if you loved the chaos)

  • The #1 mindset shift that makes stepfamily life saner for everyone

  • What endurance training teaches us about starting again—one first step at a time

    Memorable moments
    • 00:03 — The personality test that labeled Amy a “nurturer” (and why it rattled her)

    • 00:06 — Empty nest, senioritis… and the mystery of the missing spoons 🥄

    • 00:14 — Reclaiming identity vs. trying to “reclaim 25”

    • 00:19 — The “breadcrumbs” method for finding what feels right

    • 00:26 — Step-parenting: stop fitting into the old family; help build the new one

    • 00:35 — Grit, marathons, and the art of starting where you are

    • 00:39 — Two mantras Amy lives by

      Guest links
      • Step-Parent Coaching: Stepparent Success School — stepparentsuccessschool.com

      • Podcast: The Art of Imperfect Adultingimperfectadulting.com (also on Apple & Spotify)

        Resources mentioned
        • Grit by Angela Duckworth

        • American Beauty (film reference)

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                  Midlife isn’t a fade-out—it’s your cue to choose what’s next.

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                  The GenX Remix - Midlife, Laughs, and Next ActsBy Tabatha Jones