After being betrayed by someone, most of us want few things, usually at the same time, at the same moment. We want to wound the person who hurt us—as deeply and as excruciatingly—as we've been wounded ( One), and we want to rise above the situation and offer that person forgiveness ( Two). But neither of these tactics work. Wounding words tend to boomerang and make you feel as terrible as the person you wanted to hurt. Putting a light of Forgiveness, especially if halfhearted, ought to come off as condescension. Hence, you cant miss listening this one, Recovering from betrayals. #forgiveness #betrayal #life