Spoken Love Podcast

Red Flags & Discernment: Are You Seeing Clearly or Reacting From Wounds?


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Modern dating has everyone spotting red flags, but are they always signs to run, or sometimes reflections of unresolved triggers?


In Season 3, Episode 3 of the Spoken Love Podcast, we unpack the powerful connection between red flags and discernment. This episode explores how to distinguish between true warning signs and emotional reactions rooted in past hurt. Because not everything that feels uncomfortable is a red flag and not every red flag is just anxiety.


In this episode, we discuss:


  • The difference between red flags and emotional triggers
  • How unhealed wounds distort perception in dating
  • Why discernment feels calm while fear feels urgent
  • The spiritual and emotional foundation of wise decision-making
  • Practical ways to strengthen discernment and avoid projection

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re protecting your peace or projecting your pain, this conversation will help you date with clarity, confidence, and emotional maturity.

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Spoken Love PodcastBy Nelly Michelle