What better way to start 2025 than by reflecting on the past and setting intentions for the future? This week, James and Sarah are celebrating the Red Flags Everywhere one-year anniversary with a special New Year episode! From relationship goals to vision boards, they’re diving deep into what they’ve learned, what they’re letting go of, and how they’re leveling up for the year ahead. Together, they revisit last year’s dating resolutions (spoiler: they’ve got receipts), reflect on standout lessons from 30+ episodes of the show, and set their sights on the big five dreams for 2025. Plus, Sarah surprises James with some thought-provoking questions to kick off the year—and you won’t want to miss the chance to reflect, reset, and start your own “new year, new you” journey!

Bio: Sarah (She/Her) is a Queer Brooklyn based Podcast Producer and Editor. Past shows include: Minority Korner, The Queerience and Get on Up! She loves to cook and is an avid BTS fan. You can find her talking walks and creating the next project.

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Credits:

• Host/Producer: James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm

• Producer/Editor: Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays

• Closing Music: Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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What do you do when your ex comes back into your life like a ghost from the past? Well, James is being haunted by the ex of all exes—the one who inspired this very podcast! To help him unpack this unexpected twist, he’s calling in backup from his sista friend, Mackenzie Green. Together, they dive into the big questions: Do you respond? Do you block? And most importantly, how do you trust your gut when the past comes knocking? Whether you’re facing your own Michael Myers situation or just curious about why this keeps happening, James and Mackenzie have you covered with laughs, wisdom, and a few petty confessions.

Our guest this week is Mackenzie Green (she/her): Vice President of Social at Future Media and co-host of The Taylor Strecker Show. With over a decade of digital marketing experience, Mackenzie is also a proud blerd, dog mom, marathon runner, and advocate for women and girls through her work with organizations like the Shoebox Project and the Girl Scouts of Greater Los Angeles.

Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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dating, red flags everywhere, relationship advice, exes, boundaries, Mackenzie Green, relationships, humor, growth, heartbreak, self-growth

Ever wonder how faith, intention, and a little vulnerability can transform the way you approach love? And what happens when a “wild meet-cute” throws all your carefully curated plans out the window? This week on Red Flags Everywhere, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Sade Spence, who brings her signature humor and wisdom to a conversation about navigating modern love.

From her jaw-dropping meet-cute, to the lessons she’s learned about spotting red flags and celebrating green ones, Sade’s story reminds us that sometimes love is equal parts faith, self-awareness, and being open to the unexpected. Along the way, we dive into her exciting career—did we mention she’s worked with Marvel?—and the intentional steps she’s taken to balance ambition with authentic connection.

Our guest this week is Sade Spence (she/her): a multifaceted journalist, content creator, and entertainment host whose passion for pop culture, nerdom, and storytelling knows no bounds. Sade has hosted for Marvel, Variety, and AMC Theaters, bringing her signature charm and sharp insights to every project. When she’s not interviewing your favorite stars or diving into the latest superhero saga as host of the Official Marvel Podcast, she’s empowering the next generation of hosts through her workshops and coaching programs. Follow her on Instagram and TikTok: @SadeASpence and @SadeTV to keep up with her latest adventures—and maybe even learn a hosting tip or two!

 

a vibrant journalist, content creator, and entertainment host Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurmProducer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsaysClosing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

Connect with Us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: [email protected] TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere PodcastFacebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere CommunityCheck out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel

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KEYWORDS: dating, red flags everywhere, relationship advice, faith, intention, green flags, Marvel, relationships, vulnerability, self-growth, storytelling, meet-cute, humor

In the wake of a tumultuous election season and a world brimming with uncertainty, how do we protect our peace, foster love, and build connections that matter? 

This week we’re joined by the brilliant Shantira Jackson—writer, comedian, and voice of resilience—as we dive into navigating relationships, identity, and self-care amidst world turmoil. Shantira opens up about finding joy and love in the chaos, leaning into her community, and prioritizing her well-being in a world that often feels overwhelming. Together, we unpack the impact of politics on identity and relationships, the value of intentional self-care, and why this is the time to refocus on personal growth and Black love. Plus, Shantira shares hilarious anecdotes, insightful advice, and powerful reminders of what it means to thrive while staying true to yourself.

Whether you're navigating dating in uncertain times or rediscovering your own power, this episode is here to inspire and uplift.

Our guest today is Shantira Jackson (she/her): Shantira Jackson (she/her) is a writer, comedian, and creative powerhouse known for her work on Big Mouth, Human Resources, Amber Ruffin Show, and the Saved by the Bell reboot. A Florida native, Shantira brings a sharp wit and profound insights to her work, which often centers on social commentary, Black joy, and embracing authenticity. When she’s not writing for hit shows, she’s channeling her energy into self-care, community building, and finding the best churros around.

Follow Shantira: Watch Big Mouth Season 7, Human Resources Season 2, and her episodes of Saved by the Bell Reboot on Peacock.

Credits:

• Host/Producer: James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm

• Producer/Editor: Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays

• Closing Music: Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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• Email: [email protected]

• Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast

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Ever felt ready to call it quits on dating apps, exhausted from swiping through red flags and fleeting connections? This week, we’re diving deep into the dating trenches with Marvel's own Ray Lowe, who found her person after almost giving up on online dating. From identifying red flags to recognizing the surprising green lights, Ray’s story is all about resilience and self-growth. She shares the faith it took to keep looking, the personal work she did to prepare for real connection, and how reconnecting with her spirituality helped her know what she truly wanted in a relationship. Plus, we unpack why sometimes, finding the love you deserve means being ready for a ‘boring,’ steady love—in the best way.

Our guest today is Ray Lowe (she/her): Ray Lowe (she/her) is a Marvel event host and producer with a knack for storytelling, style, and embracing all things geek culture. Based in New Orleans, Ray is a former fashion editor turned stylist whose love for creativity and comic culture makes her the ultimate professional geek. When she’s not on the red carpet or hosting for Marvel, you can find her collecting vintage fashion, curating her wardrobe, and caring for her beloved cats. Ray's journey through dating apps and her fresh take on love and resilience bring a grounded perspective to today’s conversation. IG: @rayasunshiine

Credits: Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

Connect with us: Instagram: @redflagseverywherepod Email: [email protected] TikTok: @redflagseverywherepod Facebook Page: Red Flags Everywhere Podcast Facebook Group: Red Flags Everywhere Community Check out video clips on YouTube: Red Flags Everywhere YouTube Channel

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Have you ever felt like you were cosplaying in your own life, playing different roles in your relationships, and ignoring the red flags in the process? Today, we’re joined by the incredibly talented Judy Stephens, producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and author of Cosplay the Marvel Way. From her experience navigating cosplay culture to advocating for diverse voices at Marvel, Judy shares how dressing up as superheroes can help you uncover your authentic self. She opens up about dating in the cosplay community (is mixing your passions with your love life a good idea)? Plus Judy spills the tea on red and green flags you can spot based on someone’s cosplay choices. 

Our guest today is Judy Stephens (she/her): a cosplay producer, co-creator of the Women of Marvel podcast, and co-author of Cosplay the Marvel Way. You can follow Judy on Instagram and TikTok at @omgdjjudy and check out her latest projects, including her upcoming book Super Visible: The Story of the Women of Marvel.

Credits:

• Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm

• Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays

• Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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• Email: [email protected]

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KEYWORDS: dating, red flags everywhere, LGBTQ, Black podcast, relationships, relationship advice

 

We’re joined by the talented JP Karliak—voice of iconic characters like Morph from X-Men ’97, the Joker, Boss Baby (Netflix) the Green Goblin, and many more. JP shares his personal experiences navigating red flags, balancing mental and emotional well-being, and embracing the chaos of life. We also dive into queer/straight friend dynamics, JP’s unforgettable wedding and the compromises that made it special, and his advocacy work for LGBTQIA+ representation through his organization Queer Vox. Plus, JP offers invaluable advice for aspiring LGBTQIA+ voice actors on how to find and love their unique voices in an industry that can often push conformity. And as co-founder of NerdsVote, JP highlights the importance of getting out the vote—because your voice matters!

Our guest today is JP Karliak (he/him): A versatile voice actor known for roles like Morph in X-Men ’97, the Joker, and the Green Goblin. JP is the founder of Queer Vox, advocating for LGBTQIA+ representation in voice acting, and co-founder of NerdsVote, encouraging voter registration. To learn more about JP, follow him on Instagram at @jpkarliak, @queervoxacademy, and @nerdsvote. You can also visit jpkarliak.com, queervox.org, and nerdsvote.com. Credits:

Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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Have you ever ignored a glaring red flag, hoping things would magically work out, only to find yourself trapped in yet another relationship disaster? You’re not alone! In this episode, we’re joined by Brianna McCabe, author of The Red Flags I’ve Ignored, to help us dive deep into the red flags we often overlook and why we ignore them. Brianna shares personal stories and insights from her book, reflecting on her own journey of self-discovery, healing, and breaking toxic patterns. We’ll also discuss how to cultivate self-love, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to spot those elusive green flags in relationships. Plus, Brianna offers practical advice for anyone trying to navigate the tricky waters of dating and relationships, especially if you’re tired of falling into the same traps.

Our guest today is Brianna McCabe (she/her): an author, marketing professional, and professor with a mission to teach self-love, set boundaries, and break free from toxic relationship patterns. To learn more about Brianna and her work, you can follow her on Instagram and Tik Tok: @thebriannamccabe or grab a copy of her book The Red Flags I’ve Ignored here on Amazon.  Website: https://thebriannamccabe.com/ 

Credits:

Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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Have you ever found yourself endlessly swiping left on dating apps, wondering why nothing clicks? Or maybe you've seen the red flags but kept going anyway—only to end up in a relationship horror story that you can't believe you survived. You're not alone. In today's episode, we're here with Josh Saleh, my brother from another mother! Josh is a fellow entertainment host—who also hosts for Marvel.  He's here to help us explore why so many of us get stuck in that loop, the red flags we've ignored, and the wild situations we've lived to tell about. We'll also discuss how to break free from old habits and be open to new possibilities, and just how important sexual compatibility is. Plus, Josh gets really candid about some dating horror stories. And just for fun, we're going to play a few rounds of Josh’s hit new party game "Change My Mind", as it pertains to green flags and the things we’re looking for in a partner- and what often gets overlooked. 

Our guest today is Josh Saleh (he/him): a dynamic entertainment host known for his work with Marvel as a hosts for red carpets, comic con, and their YouTube channel. He’s had a winning appearance on hit shows like "Let’s Make a Deal." Josh is also the creator of "Change My Mind," a new and exciting party game that’s taking the market by storm.To learn more about Josh and his work, you can follow him on Instagram at @joshdsaleh and check out "Change My Mind" @changemymindthegame on Amazon.

Credits:

Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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As we dive headfirst into Hot Boy Summer, we're excited to tackle a topic that affects us all: rejection. Today, we're thrilled to have Damon Jacobs, our resident therapist and mental health expert, guide us through understanding and overcoming the fear of rejection. Join us as Damon shares his profound insights on vulnerability, inner strength, and the importance of embracing rejection to grow personally and in relationships. Discover practical strategies to push through fear, reclaim your power, and build healthier connections. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, Damon's expertise offers invaluable perspectives for everyone. Tune in for an episode full of revelations, growth, and empowerment. It's Hot Boy Summer, and we're here to make it unforgettable!

Our guest today is Damon L. Jacobs (he/him): a licensed therapist and author dedicated to helping individuals navigate mental health challenges and build fulfilling lives. Based in New York City, he is the author of two books titled, "Absolutely Should-less" and "Rational Relating."  He is best known for championing the use of pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) in The New York Times, USA Today, ABC News, MSNBC, NPR, and more. Visit Damon's website at DamonLJacobs.com and check out his series, "Tub Talks with Damon," on YouTube. IG: @damonljacobs. 

Credits:

• Host/Producer - James Arthur M. (he/him) @jamesarthurm

• Producer/Editor - Sarah Brown (she/her) @sbrownsays

• Closing Music - Manny Baltazar (he/him) @mannybalty

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• Email: [email protected]

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