Prickly and Blooming

Reframing Self-Care | Stef Caldwell


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Stef Caldwell was on track to complete her 10-year plan until she got the call from her boss. Her position at work had been eliminated. She was moved to a new role in a new department, but it completely devastated her.

In this episode of Prickly and Blooming, Stef speaks with host Jessie Browning about realizing how she determined her self worth through work and how she adjusted this mindset by setting ruthless boundaries. She also talks about her company, Manifest, that helps ambitious women set and achieve their goals.

Episode Timeline:

  • [00:03] Intro
  • [05:33] Meet Stef Caldwell
  • [07:12] An unexpected job change
  • [10:57] The importance to nurture your mental health
  • [15:30] Follow the White Rabbit moment
  • [19:43] Getting her dream job, then losing the dream job
  • [24:04] "My life is sacred"
  • [27:58] Setting ruthless boundaries
  • [30:36] Inspiration on Bixby Creek Bridge
  • [34:58] Hindsight is 2020
  • [40:19] Never stop learning
  • [42:11] Dreaming big
  • [45:57] Contacting Stef Caldwell
  • [47:10] Jessie's rapid fire questions
  • [55:40] Outro
  • Resources Mentioned:
    • ManifestHer: The Ambitious Woman's Guide to: Getting Unstuck, Navigating the Ambiguity of Your Post-Prescribed Life, and Manifesting Your Biggest Dreams by Stef Caldwell
  • Ritual Hot Yoga
  • Insight Timer
  • "Making Your Life Sacred" by Sarah Blondin
  • Arianna Huffington
  • Miki Agrawal
  • You²: A High-Velocity Formula for Multiplying your Personal Effectiveness in Quantum Leaps by Price Pritchett, PhD
  • Standout Quotes:
    • "My personal mission to help women claim their power and step into their potential." -Stef Caldwell [06:28]
  • "And in that moment, I realized that 100% of my self worth was tied up in who I was in the office, and that just couldn't be the case anymore." -Stef Caldwell [10:34]
  • "Self-love, in the way that we define it in Manifest, is expressing a deep affection for your essential being. And self-care, as we define it, is the health, welfare, maintenance and protection of your essential being. And when you start reframing self-care is like what do I need for my health? What do I need for my welfare? What do I need for the maintenance of me and for the protection of me? You start really shape shifting." -Stef Caldwell [38:49]
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