The Shadow & The Light w davidji & Elizabeth Winkler

Regulating Your Nervous System for Inner Peace


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Feeling triggered, stressed, or carrying that proverbial chip on your shoulder? You might be experiencing what meditation teacher davidji and psychotherapist Elizabeth Winkler reveal as "emotional fight-flight" – a modern evolution of our ancient survival mechanism that's wreaking havoc on our health and happiness.

This eye-opening exploration takes you deep into the physiology of stress, explaining how everyday emotional reactions trigger the same hormonal cascade as life-threatening dangers. When someone comments on your appearance or questions your choices, your body responds as if facing a predator – perspiring, breathing shallowly, increasing heart rate, and even preparing your blood to clot before you're injured. The consequences of repeatedly activating this response are far more serious than momentary discomfort.

davidji and Elizabeth share their most powerful "stress hacks" for instantly regulating your nervous system, including the "Fill Her Up, Top It Off" breathing technique that signals safety to your heart's natural pacemaker, and the "16-Second Reset" that breaks thought patterns and brings you back to the present moment. For those with trauma histories, they offer grounding practices that create safety before meditation, emphasizing the importance of options and awareness of your surroundings.

Beyond formal techniques, discover how simple lifestyle adjustments – spending time in nature, taking walks, incorporating even five minutes of yoga daily, and maintaining a consistent meditation practice – can create what David calls "a parachuted life." Experience the immediate relief of Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) and the powerful energy release of the "Ah" mantra as demonstrated live in the episode.

Ready to transform those reactive moments into opportunities for presence and connection? These accessible practices don't just protect your health – they create the foundation for experiencing life with greater joy, clarity, and authenticity. Try them today and notice how quickly your perspective shifts from threat to possibility.


Our nervous system's fight-flight response evolved from physical dangers to emotional triggers, causing the same harmful physiological changes and potentially leading to health issues when repeatedly activated.

• Evolution of fight-flight response from physical to emotional triggers
• Physiological changes during fight-flight: perspiration, shallow breathing, increased heart rate
• Suppression of non-essential functions like immune system and digestion during stress
• Emotional triggers can cause the same hormonal cascade as physical threats
• "Fill Her Up, Top It Off" breathing technique to instantly reset your nervous system
• The "16-Second Reset" technique to break thought patterns and return to present moment
• Trauma-informed meditation approaches that create safety through grounding
• Importance of giving options when guiding others through mindfulness practices
• Simple lifestyle changes: nature time, walking, yoga, and consistent medit

ATTENTION: Elizabeth is coming to Ireland! Click this link to join the retreat!

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Visit davidji.com & elizabethwinkler.com for additional meditation & healing resources.

Big shoutout to the amazing Jamar Rogers for creating such powerful music and lyrics for the official song of The Shadow & The Light Podcast!

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