RW Jeff Feinman

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Walter Dusseldorp—better known as the Dutch Mentor—to unpack the transformative power of small, consistent actions. Walter shares his guiding mantra: “In just 15 minutes per day, you too can become the leader you want to be and the leader your team would thrive under.” Drawing from his experiences mentoring emerging leaders and flying helicopters, Walter delivers practical insight into why 15 minutes is the sweet spot for building lasting habits. He explains how genuine leadership begins with knowing your people deeply, fostering trust, and focusing on engagement rather than control. Walter’s approachable wisdom comes with actionable routines and a focus on measuring what truly matters, so you can accelerate your growth, avoid wasted effort, and build your new normal—one day and one meaningful step at a time. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by self-improvement or leadership advice, this conversation is a reminder that small, consistent progress always adds up. Tune in, get inspired, and see how 15 intentional minutes can shift your leadership—and life—in powerful ways.

Connect With Walter Dusseldorp
Website: https://thedutchmentor.com
YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thedutchmentor

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:35 Who Is Walter Dusseldorp
01:12 How 15 Minutes Can Change Leadership
02:21 The Science Behind 15 Minutes
03:07 Daily Routines for Better Leadership
04:00 Knowing the People You Lead
04:36 Leadership Without Formal Title
05:01 The 7-to-1 Leadership Structure
05:42 Building Trust and Engagement
06:17 High Performance Equation Explained
07:29 Leading with Context Versus Control
08:02 Practical Example of Context-Driven Leadership
09:50 Creating a New Normal
12:08 Experiences, Actions, and Outcomes
12:38 Focus, Measurement, Accountability
13:14 The Myth of Multitasking
14:24 Working with Your Best Brainpower
15:45 Measuring What Matters Most
16:41 Inputs Versus Outputs
17:38 Real-World Sales Leadership Example
19:29 Avoiding Non-Value-Added Work
21:59 Lean, Six Sigma, and Efficient Leadership
22:36 Where to Learn More from Walter
23:38 Closing and Final Thoughts

On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Andy Halko—someone who, in his own words, is on a mission to cut through chaos and make the complex simple. Andy brings us his favorite quote, “Bias is the enemy of growth,” a mantra that’s shaped both his life and work as a founder, CEO, and author. We dig into Andy’s story, his lessons from over two decades building companies, and how recognizing and navigating our own biases is key to personal and professional growth. From building AI platforms to coaching new founders, Andy shares how bias sneaks into decision-making, often masquerading as “experience” or “gut feeling,” and how it can secretly stall our dreams. Listeners will hear practical wisdom on balancing passion with objectivity, actionable steps to remove bias (starting today!), and insights from Andy’s own journey that will help you move from confusion to clarity—no matter what you’re building or dreaming about.

Connect With Andy Halko
Website: https://andyhalko.com

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:35 Meet Andy Halko
01:09 Andy’s Favorite Quote
01:42 Why The Quote Resonates
02:20 How Bias Shows Up In Life
03:35 Reducing Bias In Decision-Making
04:29 Attachment And Emotional Bias
05:11 Founders, Feedback, And Letting Go
06:03 Loving The Work Vs. Objectivity
07:52 Logic, Perspective, And Decision-Making
08:52 Micro And Macro Views
10:03 Experience, Bias, And Growth
11:04 Actionable Steps To Remove Bias
12:33 How To Connect With Andy
13:12 Outro And Listener Takeaways

RW David McClam

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sat down with Lisa Watson, a transformational coach whose journey from adversity to empowerment is as inspiring as it is relatable. Lisa shared a powerful quote by John F. Kennedy: “Children are our best hope for the future and our most valuable resource.” This mantra forms the cornerstone of Lisa’s work, as she guides adults through reparenting themselves and teaches emotional regulation—tools she’s also bringing to the next generation through her upcoming children’s book, “Courage Finds His Calm.” Our candid conversation dug deeply into what healing your inner child truly means, how subconscious programming shapes our lives, and why our authentic selves are key to lasting change. Lisa’s own story of transformation—moving from a place of abandonment and fear to authenticity, empowerment, and unconditional self-love—is packed with wisdom and practical takeaways for anyone yearning to break free from old patterns and cultivate inner peace. If you’re looking for inspiration and actionable tools to change your story, this episode delivers.

Connect With Lisa Watson
Website: https://reparent-yourself.com
Children’s Books: https://awakentheone.org

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:31 Meet Lisa Watson
01:22 Lisa’s Favorite Quote
02:19 The Importance Of Reparenting
02:47 What Is Inner Child Healing
03:58 How Childhood Programs Us
04:42 Environment’s Impact On Beliefs
05:47 Healing The Inner Child Explained
07:06 How To Support The Show
07:49 Real-Life Inner Child Healing Example
09:47 Lisa’s Childhood And Challenges
11:02 The Shift To Self-Advocacy
12:30 Transformation And Empowerment
13:33 Authenticity As Highest Frequency
14:24 How Lisa Got Started
15:42 Discovering Spirituality
16:42 Injury And Awakening
17:07 Becoming A Coach
18:02 Courage Finds His Calm Book
19:18 Story Behind The Children’s Book
19:58 Message: Finding Calm Within
20:30 Book’s Lessons For Everyone
21:08 Advice For Listeners
22:11 Where To Find Lisa Watson
22:50 Show Closing And Farewell

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Hani Cheng, an intimacy transformation coach whose journey from 15 years in the corporate world to global entrepreneur is guided by one powerful mantra: "Trusting my infinite being." Hani shared how overcoming a 15-year health challenge catalyzed her shift away from comfort and security toward deeper authenticity and connection. We explored the voice within us—our “infinite being”—and how tuning into it helps us make choices that align with our true selves, even when logic or fear urge otherwise. Hani’s insights on navigating those gray areas where decisions feel 98% right, but never fully certain, are a timely reminder for anyone feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or out of sync. For listeners seeking practical advice on aligning actions with their deepest truths, this episode is filled with honest stories, actionable wisdom, and a refreshing perspective on stepping boldly into transformation. If you’ve ever wondered how to distinguish between comfort-driven choices and those that stretch you toward growth, don’t miss this inspiring conversation.

Connect With Hani Cheng
Website: https://tantrussingapore.com/intimacycoaching
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hanicheng

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:32 Meet Hani Cheng
00:49 Favorite Quote: Trusting Infinite Being
01:00 Defining Infinite Being
01:05 Hani’s Turning Point Story
02:49 Infinite Perspective And Decision-Making
04:03 Navigating Complex Choices
05:10 Logic Versus Intuition
06:34 Listener Call-To-Action
07:17 When Infinite Being Feels Absent
09:06 Analysis Versus Alignment
10:26 Life Track And Alignment
12:04 Side Quests And Getting Stuck
12:32 Security Versus Expansion
13:48 Key Takeaway: Trust Your Truth
14:15 Facing Your Truth
15:08 How Truth Guides You
15:45 Connecting With Hani Cheng
16:45 Episode Wrap-Up And Reflections

On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sat down with Derrick Henderson, an author and massage therapist who’s spent years supporting others—until he discovered he’d lost sight of himself along the way. Derrick’s heartfelt quote, “We grow together,” becomes the guiding theme for our conversation. He gets candid about joining a men’s group, reaching his breaking point, and learning the transformative power of community, vulnerability, and authentic connection. We dive into his journey from struggling alone to embracing support, and how those connections helped him write his book, “Learning to Be Me.” Derrick’s story is all about courage, connection, and the sometimes scary, always rewarding process of reaching out for help. If you’ve ever felt isolated or hesitant to ask for support, Derrick’s insights (and candid disclaimers!) offer both inspiration and actionable advice for finding your tribe and truly growing together. This episode is for anyone on the path to authenticity, purpose, and deeper community.

Connect with Derrick Henderson

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/derrick.henderson.author/

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/derrick-henderson-aa69b7243

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:34 Derrick’s Story And Background
01:24 Sharing The Favorite Quote
01:35 The Turning Point—Why “We Grow Together”
02:26 Learning Through Asking For Help
03:42 A Defining Moment In The Men’s Group
04:58 The Power Of Shared Growth
05:07 Comparing Solo And Collaborative Projects
05:47 Writing The Book: Alone Versus Together
07:00 Reflecting On Growth And Community
07:51 If The Quote Had A “Disclaimer”
08:54 The Value Of Camaraderie And Unity
09:42 Why Growing Together Matters
10:00 Different Groups, Different Growth
10:32 Advice For Finding Your Tribe
11:12 Actionable Steps To Build Community
12:22 You Don’t Have To Do It All Alone
13:35 Final Reflections And Gratitude
13:54 Where To Find Derrick’s Book And Connect
15:08 Derrick’s Parting Thoughts On Wisdom
16:17 Wrap-Up And Farewell

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sat down with David Beckemeyer, host of the Outrage Overload podcast, to dig into the powerful, deceptively simple mantra that’s guided much of his life: “What do you mean, how? You just do it.” David shared the story of how this bit of wisdom, passed down from his father-in-law in a moment of off-hand honesty, became a touchstone for pushing past overthinking and embracing action—even when the next step feels daunting or unclear. Together, we explored how this attitude applies to everything from starting a business to navigating major life changes, and why sometimes you need a dash of naivete to dive in and figure things out by doing, not just planning. Listeners will find encouragement to stop waiting for perfect conditions and instead trust that most growth comes from movement and course correction, not from exhaustive preparation. David’s reminders to focus on the core mission—rather than clinging to rigid plans—offer inspiration for anyone feeling stuck or hesitant about their next move.

Connect With David Beckemeyer
Website: https://outrageoverload.net

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:35 Meet David Beckemeyer
01:08 The Power Of “You Just Do It”
02:19 Wisdom In Action And Failure
03:24 Overthinking Versus Doing
04:47 Will, Obstacles, And Commitment
05:49 Planning Versus The Mission
08:09 Adapting And Course Correction
09:30 Mindset Shifts And Business Lessons
11:16 Sunk Costs And Moving On
12:55 Stories Of Trying And Learning
14:08 Tenacity, Rejection, And Success
15:49 Grit Versus Letting Go
17:03 Evolving Business And Opportunities
19:25 Staying At The Table
20:20 Doing As Data And Progress
21:12 Most Decisions Are Reversible
22:13 Job Security Myths
22:53 Gratitude And Guest Resources
23:36 Outrage Autopsy Project Introduction
24:40 Closing Reflections And Farewell

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Kristan Swan, a business coach and experiential learner who brings a deep belief in the transformative power of storytelling. Kristan's chosen quote, "The sun doesn't shine on us, it shines within us," from John Muir, served as an entry point into a heartful conversation about inner light, creativity, and the journey to self-discovery. Kristan shared the personal impact of growing up in a turbulent household, how people-pleasing shaped her early identity, and how embracing creative expression helped her reconnect with her authentic self. We also explored empathy, with Kristan reflecting on how genuine connection often requires us to put aside judgment and truly listen. The wisdom she shares is both warm and actionable—reminding us that our own light is meant to be seen, shared, and recognized in others. If you’re seeking inspiration on living more authentically and deepening your connections, this conversation is a beacon of hope and practical insights.

Connect With Kristan Swan
Website: https://kristanswan.com
Substack: https://kristanswan.substack.com

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:32 Meet Kristan Swan
00:43 Power Of Storytelling
01:43 The Quote That Guides Kristan
03:08 Interpreting The Inner Sun
04:36 Personal Story Of Self-Discovery
07:11 Overcoming People-Pleasing
09:26 Creativity And Self-Expression
10:28 Quick Pause And Announcements
11:09 Exploring Empathy And Connection
13:59 Story About Listening Without Judgment
17:49 Finding Ourselves In Others
18:58 Insights On Dimmed Inner Light
19:43 Practicing Everyday Kindness
20:50 Importance Of Being Seen
21:12 How To Connect With Kristan
22:58 Closing Thoughts And Gratitude

On this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Bernice McDonald, a “Tiny Brave Steps” coach who helps midlife women live with courage, moving from feeling not enough to brave enough—one small, conscious step at a time. Bernice shared her favorite quote by Ambrose Redmond: “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something is more important than the fear.” Her story is a powerful reminder that fear is a normal—sometimes protective—part of life, but true growth comes from choosing what matters most and acting anyway. We explored how fear tries to keep us safe, but also holds us back from meaningful opportunities, whether it’s starting a podcast, having tough conversations, or pursuing love. Bernice’s wisdom and practical advice are relatable for anyone feeling stuck or hesitant. She also revealed resources like her “Tiny Brave Steps Generator” and her Little Books of Courage series, inspiring us all to take those first steps and actively choose bravery over comfort, every day.

Connect With Bernice McDonald

Website: https://tinybravesteps.com

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction And Welcome

00:31 Meet Bernice McDonald

01:44 Ambrose Redmond’s Courage Quote

02:24 Growing Up With Fear

03:35 Soldiers And Side-By-Side Courage

04:19 Inner Warrior And Action

05:25 Everyday Fears And Examples

06:58 Fear’s Protective Mechanism

08:17 Tiny Brave Steps In Action

08:52 Wisdom’s Podcast Journey

10:21 Action Grows Courage

11:04 Mastery And Next Steps

11:40 Judgment And Choosing What Matters

12:51 Personalizing And Facing Fear

13:42 Brave Steps In Relationships

14:17 Whitewater Rafting As A Metaphor

15:06 Workplace Courage And Boundaries

15:46 Fear As A Backseat Driver

17:10 Everyday Courage Decisions

17:45 The Luxury Of Fear

18:39 Judging What’s Most Important

19:49 Workplace Tasks Vs. Personal Goals

20:39 Personal Growth And Risk

21:02 Fear As A Compass

22:32 Settling For Mediocrity

23:12 Podcasting And Opportunities

23:54 Bernice’s Book: Brave Enough

25:06 The Little Books Of Courage

25:58 Connect And Resources

27:16 Closing And Takeaways