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Relationship vs Religion - Church Hurt w/ Felecia Burrows


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Introduction: Main Points:

  • What is Church Hurt? In Greek the word church comes from the words Kaleo (meaning to call) and is prefixed with et (meaning out). Therefore, in Greek it means to call out. In Hebrew Church means Assembly. However, the English word church actually comes from the word Kuriakon meaning dedicated to the Lord.
  • In the context of today’s episode when we refer to the “church” we will be talking about the body of believers who gather.

    Hurt is defined as causing pain or injury.

    Quote on Church Hurt by Stephen Mansfield:

    “The Confirmation of History is that we are not called despite our wounding and betrayal; we are wounded and betrayed because we are called.” Our wounds are pain put us in position to testify of how God allowed us to overcome.

    Keys to Dealing with Church Hurt.

    1. Acknowledge that you are hurt.
    2. Talk to the person or persons who hurt you to resolve the matter
    3. If the matter isn’t resolved carry unbiased believers with you to try and win your brother/ sister over.
    4. Forgive and give grace.
    5. Take away Tweet:

      • If imperfect people gather pain or disagreements are inevitable… it’s what you do during pain or disagreements that makes the difference.
      • Conclusion:

        When experiencing church hurt, we never want to dismiss the fact that the pain you feel is real. It’s okay to be angry about it, but don’t sin, it’s okay to process what happened to you and seek wise counsel, but don’t gossip and sow seeds of discord, it’s okay to find a different church family, but don’t bash and belittle the church family you once called home. There is always a way to show honor and give grace because as believers we are called to take the high road. While it is not okay to stay in abusive or toxic environments it’s necessary to forgive.

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