Video Message for 09.30.18 | You have needs for things you can only get from others: intimacy, affection, companionship... and it's God's intent for others to meet those needs. But relationships break down when we bring a 'me-first' attitude to a relationship, rather than a servant's heart. Every relational breakthrough begins when two people decide to put the other's needs ahead of their own and become self-giving rather than self-serving. Goal 4 is to be a servant, even when you want to put your own needs first.