When you are in a relationship you have to look at this in a spiritual standpoint men and woman needs to be mindful of who they are bringing around there kids.Also bringing to their homes and being careful of who you have encounters with because that person who you think is the one is the same person that warning against you.God will bring you your husband or wife that he has for you I encourage you to seek God on finding your husband or wife you are suppose to marry so it will last a lifetime because they were sent by God.