Married 31 years. Our Marriage…Not just good…GREAT! Jennifer and I get asked all the time, is your marriage as good as it appears? The real answer, it’s better than it appears. It doesn't come from two people bringing 50% each to the relationship. Nor does it come from bringing 100/100 to the relationship. What human could gauge if they are bringing 60%, 72%, or 93%? I can't, no one can! We buy into so much BS about relationships because it sounds good. The divorce rates show none of it is working. Straight talk...you are either a Blessing or a Burden to each other. Have a Listen!