As individuals, the choices we make indeed hold some form of consequences - whether immediate or long-term. Some consequences are desirable, and some are not. But in some situations, it may be difficult to heed caution despite the possible negative repercussions as instincts, emotions, and impulses take precedence. This is where the idea of being less controlling comes in. Allowing a little room for experimentation and spontaneity in our choices and actions can not only lead to fun and memorable experiences but it can also lead to personal growth and development. It can even extend to learning how to trust others and relinquishing some semblance of control to them. Though it may be challenging at first, the benefits are numerous and well worth the effort.