When moms and dads are in the thick of it… when every day brings up a new conflict and teens seem to change personality by the week… it’s hard to keep the goal in mind.

The goal is this:  Mom and dad, you are preparing your child to function independently in the world!  [[You’re giving her the skills she needs to live an autonomous life.]]  So… how do you reach for that goal today?  Well…

Don’t be afraid to let disappointment and rejection into your child’s life.  They’ve got to face it sometime!

And talk through the conflicting messages of our culture… don’t isolate them to a protective bubble.

Finally, demonstrate commitment and character in your personal life.  You’re a bigger role model than you think!

Take a positive step toward your goal every day… and begin releasing your child into the world as a healthy, balanced adult!

 

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