Being in the military brings quite a bit of discrete anxiety about how you are expected to portray yourself, or fear of how you are being looked at/judged. Sonya Achara, former Marine and new author of "Remember who you are: my journey to higher consciousness" leads up through her experience of living in that anxiety as a female pregnant marine and how she found herself in situations with a narcissist coworker and spouse which lead her to find a way out and discover her true strength and power. In her words, she is now "limitless".