Between the stimulus and response there is a space - space from which we have freedom and power to choose. Our choices take us toward life or death. Our ability to tolerate truth plays a big role in our capacity to choose life. Dealing with reality engages us to seek and give forgiveness, work toward reconciliation whenever possible, repair damage done by sin, even our unintentional sins. These sins can be the hardest to address because we are so good at making excuses for ourselves. But God's Word shows us He desires for us to forgive, reconcile, and repair. Restitution is what the Holy Spirit provides for us to give to those who we hurt from our sins, both intentional and unintentional. This is how we grow in sanctuary as loved, loving people of God.