I am replaying this episode because I think its message is so important.  Patti Clark talks about how women lose their sense of self when they spend their lives taking care of and pleasing others. She talks about how women "get lost in the lives of others" and how to reconnect with ourselves, how to find our flow, and how to focus inward rather than outward.  Her lesson is a critical part of Step One of My 7 Steps To Killing It Action Plan, Find Your Joy.  Get the plan at womenkillingit.com