Respect. Are you getting it? I don't mean systemically, as a woman in society. That's a whole 'nother blog post or 50... although that's a huge part of it. Leaving a mess for mum to clean up is catching. Kids and partners do it automatically. They'd really rather not do it, and you always do it, so... 

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