Bufe talks to the men during this service.  The Christian ethic is the reciprocal ethic.  There are obligations and responsibilities for a Christian husband.  Before the gospel came, women had no rights unless you were royalty.  Today most men don't have any training before becomiong husbands.  But the Word of God has something to say about how husbands should treat their wives.   Men are to be understanding of their wives and thoughtful of their needs.  Husbands are to honor their wives as the weaker sex.  Treat her with value and esteem.  Don't take your wife for granted.  Remember your wife has equal spiritual rights.  She is your full partner is receiving God's blessings.  If men fall short in these responsibilities, their prayers will not be answered.   Bufe also points out when you are loving your wife, you are loving yourself.  He ends the message talking about forgiveness, how God forgives us and we need to forgive each other.  

1 Peter 3, Matthew 6, Ephesians 4, Ephesians 5