In this episode, of Conversations We’ve Never Had, Candice and Gemma unpack the complex weight of responsibility that survivors of child sexual abuse carry throughout their lives - from the moment of abuse through disclosure, the criminal justice process, and beyond. They explore how responsibility shows up in every area of life: the guilt of "breaking" a family, the burden of holding secrets, the exhaustion of managing everyone else's feelings, and the challenge of navigating support systems. Candice and Gemma discuss how survivors often become caregivers within their own families, taking on roles they should never have to hold.

They talk about the need to reclaim responsibility as something beautiful - the pride of being a parent, the joy of caring for loved ones, and the power of teaching children about responsibility in age-appropriate, empowering ways. They challenge practitioners to shift from feeling responsible for "fixing" survivors to offering hope and truth instead. This episode is a call to place responsibility where it truly belongs: with perpetrators, not survivors. 

**Content Warning: ** This episode discusses themes related to childhood sexual abuse, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.

**Disclaimer: ** This podcast is a conversation between friends and is for informational purposes only. It should not be considered as a substitute for professional advice or therapy. If you or someone you know is affected by the issues discussed in this episode, please seek support from trained professionals or organisations specialising in mental health and trauma recovery. In the UK, you can access support and find local organisations via the Rape Crisis Helpline 24/7 0808 5002222. Children and young people can contact Childline 24/7 0800 1111. Internationally you can contact the RAINN Network 24/7 who may be able to signpost you to local services in your area (++) 800.656.4673. 

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