The backbone of family, God's way, is the patriarchal family model. And it's God's plan we'll see, primarily to use men to lead their families.When men are living fully surrendered to Jesus and embody the love of God, you'll send the women and the children around you into outer space. So it's nothing to be concerned about when we get it right. Now, sure when men get it wrong, the damage is cataclysmic. It reveals a dispensation of God's grace and a representation of Heaven that you can't see any other way.