Ride with Nbs Malay

Should you accept your placement in someone’s life when it ends in a way that you do not agree with? Is it right to control someone’s lifestyle with your expectations? What do you consider a friend? This episode is about releasing the blame from yourself on the relationships you may be manipulated into keeping. Everything does not need to be explained (in my opinion, of course). Be a good person but don’t exhaust yourself into being more than what your soul can offer. Take space for you and let people be them. Don’t let it break you. Don’t let what they think of you, bring out the dark side of you. You’re better than that (in my opinion, of course).

Are you tired of asking yourself what is right with you? Tired of being right all the time? Are you entertained by abusing others with your cruel words, selfish expectations and evil antics? Have you taken the narcissism test? Listen, don’t listen to this if you’re expecting a happy ending. This subject makes me angry ! Article we talked about: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/14-signs-of-narcissism YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/3RkLvglGKCQ

He might be your friend. I don’t care. He might be your brother. I don’t care. He might be your grandson. I don’t care. He might be your cousin. I DON’T CARE! Be aware of the people you love and let them know that it is not okay to hurt anybody. Especially someone you planned to have a future with. I don’t care who is listening. I don’t care who doesn’t believe me. I don’t care if you’re mad that I am speaking out because I CARE about myself and I care about others who can learn from this. No silence!!! Cause nobody will know. No silence!!! If you’re ready to grow from all the hurt and pain this caused you. No silence!!!! Because your story matters, my story matters and how we made it out is important! Be encouraged, be courageous, be strong, be healthy and be free. Much love and peace to you.

https://www.breakthecycle.org/blog/it’s-national-domestic-violence-awareness-month

We talk about “red flags”, but how do you know what to look for if you don’t see the part you played to welcome the repetitiveness? You have to be ready to accept your responsibility in something in order to make some kind of change in your life. If you want “peace”—you have to be peaceful. Forgive others without them apologizing for their wrongdoings and move on. Go ahead and hold a grudge! Your heart can turn into stone, but I refuse to not see the bigger picture. If it costs “forgiveness” to let someone go and feel peace—well, then... GOODBYE to all the apologies that aren’t owed to me. Forgiveness is for myself 🙏🏾 💯 ♾

The Royal We: https://youtu.be/qy9kBqK4Nm4

Inappropreality: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIJ7_4vyVGBuMmNnx0anYTg

Color Code of Awareness: https://sofrep.com/news/the-cooper-color-code-and-threat-assessment/

Why do we always need an apology? Why do we feel like a person who can’t take responsibility for hurting you, can say “sorry” for hurting you? Will you be satisfied with an apology that is not felt? When is it going to be your time to heal? How long are you going to let a person prey on you and change the person that you are suppose to be? You change when you’re ready! Own up to what you are doing wrong so YOU can be a better YOU!

Walking Away: https://youtu.be/GEeLQvivgdg

Beneficial Depression After Abuse: https://youtu.be/JMJVFtQEADQ

Regarded or Discarded By the Narc: https://youtu.be/0Kivk8r994k

Emotional Control: https://youtu.be/62e9Pp8twWo

Hey!!! Do you ever look at yourself and see how a person changed you? Whether it’s for better or for worse? Do you ask yourself if you’re anything like them after dealing with them for so long? Is it possible that you are developing the traits of a narcissistic individual?

Not too personal! Ouch! But I wanna express something that I feel is very important to society today... TALK to your kids... you 𝘢𝘳𝘦 their parents, yes, BUT you were ALSO their first “friend” 🥰. Don’t step around my triggers cause I’m using them to bounce back in every way that I can!!!

Dag... I don’t even know where to express this... but if you need some motivation, tuuuune iiiiin 🗣🗣🗣🗣

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I mean... expect what you accept, right? Wrong. Well... in my opinion. Should we love with no limits? Is it healthy for us to say, “I love you. If you need me, I’m here, but 𝘚𝘈𝘠𝘖𝘕𝘈𝘙𝘈”? Can you be friends with someone you once loved? Like true, true friendship without the sex? Idk but press play to hear my opinion about it. 😭❤️🙏🏾

Chatting it up with my friend about some controversial stuff on the Facebook feed! Man it’s interesting to know what other people think... but here are our opinions!!! Great convo and good laughs!

The links we spoke about:

Post on Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/512420796/posts/10159155495570797/?d=n

Narelle’s Meditation Podcast:

https://anchor.fm/narelle4/episodes/Throat-Chakra-Clearing-Visualization--Express-yo-self-ese5ns

Narelle’s Instagram:

https://instagram.com/narelleakc?igshid=111iquiag3xdp

Narelle’s 𝘕𝘌𝘞 Store:

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