You can only feign ignorance for so long. Then you just need to admit you just don't care. If not, you're a liar. That's much worse in the end.

This is a different way of thinking about your behavior patterns or habits. And the ramble at the end is me hitting a realization while talking and thinking it through, but not wanting to start over with that new knowledge to make it clean 🤷‍♂️😂.

Most people fall apart when they are overwhelmed. So find a way to train in a way that gets you there quickly, so you can find a way out. You learn over time how to come out of quicker, and eventually it becomes unnoticeable by outsiders.

We all do it. But it isn't that deep. We use the idea of looking for the best as an excuse not to start. But the reality is, we either aren't good enough for the best right now, can't afford it, or don't have the time to adjust for it. Just get started and reevaluate along the way.

Most people say they want to better themselves or that they want unconditional love. But they really want unconditional acceptance of their bad behavior and to stay the same while expecting others to constantly adapt to their inability to deal with life. I'm not the person for you if that's the case. Just a heads up 🤷‍♂️

You can't please everyone. Not everyone wants you to lead them, even if they are falling apart and think they know better. If your intent is in the right place, maybe you're just in the wrong place.

You can constantly look for the bad in your life and be miserable. That's a choice. Or, you can choose to look at the good and be grateful for things and find a way to be happy even in the suck. It's still a choice.

You don't need to lie to yourself to get through something difficult. It's best to admit it'll be hard, but know you'll find a way. That doesn't mean you won't fail, it just means you will come out the other side better than you went in.

When you let go of the fake anger and fear and accept that you just don't want to admit you were wrong, then change happens quickly. Adjust, fail, reevaluate, and adjust again. It's not hard. You just need to decide.

Character is revealed in hard times. That's why people say sports builds character. They don't. Sports can reveal character because it puts you in hardship mentally. That shows you the truth and allows you to build the skills to develop your character.