What Happens When 2 Codependents in Recovery Get in a Relationship? It's obvious to everyone around them it's unhealthy. They both want the relationship because they both lack self-love. Have you seen a friend or family member get in relationships and shut everyone out? Moving from one addiction to another is common in Recovery, but what if the obsession is another person? What's the WARNING SIGNS of this Chaotic Clingy Storm and what can someone do rather than sit back and wait for the aftermath...