Photographer, head bartender, drummer and ex-boyfriend Robert Barcelo III joins me for the most controversial episode yet. We debate the validity of calling flan a cake, working on being better people, the best burgers in New York and, of course, some of our drama.

After a tumultuous start to our relationship, Rob has become one of my closest friends and supporters. Despite being a terrible boyfriend, he has helped me sift through my journey in New York and I like to think I helped do the same for him. He's insightful, hardworking and a very talented photographer.

Follow him on IG @magthree and @rbarcelothree and go see him at Simon and the Whale!

This recipe comes from The Joy of Cooking.