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Rocky Marriage After Baby? Love Languages Aren’t Enough | Communication, Neurodivergence, and Repair with Lodovica Guidarelli | Ep. 55
Why do couples who love each other still drift apart after having children?
Why do the very efforts meant to show love often miss the mark?
In this heart-opening conversation, Marriage & Family Therapist Lodovica Guidarelli joins us to unpack why emotional disconnection happens even in committed marriages, and how love languages, unspoken expectations, co-leadership, and even undiagnosed neurodivergence can quietly erode intimacy.
We don’t just blame “communication issues.”
We get honest about what really pulls couples apart, and more importantly, how they can find each other again.
If you're feeling unseen, unappreciated, or stuck in endless loops of misunderstanding, this episode will help you feel understood and offer a compassionate roadmap back to connection.
Today we uncover:
🔍 Why emotional distance grows after parenthood
💬 How love languages can be misinterpreted
🧠 The hidden impact of neurodivergence in marriage
❤️ Why co-leading (not just supporting) matters
Stop assigning painful meanings to relationship struggles.
There's a different, and more hopeful, way to understand and repair.
✨ Tune in for powerful insights that could change the way you see your partner... and yourself.
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Who is Lodovica Guidarelli?
Lodovica Guidarelli is an Italian-American Marriage and Family Therapist, married, and mother of two. She works with couples, individuals, and parents, both online and in person, in the state of California. In her work, she integrates somatic and trauma-informed approaches, such as EMDR, Internal Family Systems, Brainspotting, and Narrative Therapy.
You can find her at:
And don’t forget to mention the Parenthood and Relationship Podcast and get your 50% discount for your first session, should you decide to work with Lodovica!
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Full Transcript HERE.
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Want to take our relationship to the next level?
👉Here are my top Resources
👉 Link to my Newsletter
👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge
📩 Get in touch with me (Instagram @markella.kaplani; website; e-mail: [email protected])
📢 Listen, share, and leave a review!
Your support means the world!
---
Markella Kaplani, M.A.
Clinical-Counseling Psychologist
Parenthood & Relationship Coach
www.markellakaplani.com
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By Markella Kaplani - Clinical-Counseling Psychologist | Parenthood & Relationship Coach | Matrescence ExpertWhy do couples who love each other still drift apart after having children?
Why do the very efforts meant to show love often miss the mark?
In this heart-opening conversation, Marriage & Family Therapist Lodovica Guidarelli joins us to unpack why emotional disconnection happens even in committed marriages, and how love languages, unspoken expectations, co-leadership, and even undiagnosed neurodivergence can quietly erode intimacy.
We don’t just blame “communication issues.”
We get honest about what really pulls couples apart, and more importantly, how they can find each other again.
If you're feeling unseen, unappreciated, or stuck in endless loops of misunderstanding, this episode will help you feel understood and offer a compassionate roadmap back to connection.
Today we uncover:
🔍 Why emotional distance grows after parenthood
💬 How love languages can be misinterpreted
🧠 The hidden impact of neurodivergence in marriage
❤️ Why co-leading (not just supporting) matters
Stop assigning painful meanings to relationship struggles.
There's a different, and more hopeful, way to understand and repair.
✨ Tune in for powerful insights that could change the way you see your partner... and yourself.
—
Who is Lodovica Guidarelli?
Lodovica Guidarelli is an Italian-American Marriage and Family Therapist, married, and mother of two. She works with couples, individuals, and parents, both online and in person, in the state of California. In her work, she integrates somatic and trauma-informed approaches, such as EMDR, Internal Family Systems, Brainspotting, and Narrative Therapy.
You can find her at:
And don’t forget to mention the Parenthood and Relationship Podcast and get your 50% discount for your first session, should you decide to work with Lodovica!
---
Full Transcript HERE.
—
Want to take our relationship to the next level?
👉Here are my top Resources
👉 Link to my Newsletter
👉 Join the Reconnect with Your Partner Challenge
📩 Get in touch with me (Instagram @markella.kaplani; website; e-mail: [email protected])
📢 Listen, share, and leave a review!
Your support means the world!
---
Markella Kaplani, M.A.
Clinical-Counseling Psychologist
Parenthood & Relationship Coach
www.markellakaplani.com