Let me be real: this divorce process has me heated.Specifically—the house.

I wanted to scream: This house is mine. I earned it. I paid for it. I carried everything on my back. I’m entitled to it.

And you know what? That anger felt good. It felt justified. It felt like the least God could give me after everything I’ve poured out.

But then my deeper wisdom came for me.It whispered: Clutching this hard… is that really who you are? Is it possible that holding on so tight to this one thing could block the bigger things that want to come?

And then the question dropped:“What do I need to add into this situation that will alter my experience of it?”

When I add higher perspective… the rage softened.When I add trust… the fear loosened.When I add integrity… I remembered that what’s truly mine can’t be stolen.

I still want the house. But I don’t want to lose me in the fight for it.

So I’ll leave you with this:Wherever you’re caught up in anger, in “I deserve this,” in that bone-deep sense of entitlement—ask yourself:✨ What can I add in right now that changes how I feel about this?

That’s where the shift begins.

And since Talena always drags me for never plugging my work—fine. You happy now, Talena? 😏If you want more questions like this, they’re in my book

I’m Leaving Now: The Little Book About Big Separations. Here is the Link.

—Dr. Majors

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