The Arrival Choice

All that hustling, striving, and pushing?It keeps you from your power.

When you finally arrive, your identity is no longer built on labor, endurance, or how much you can take and still stand up again. That’s the world of becoming — and yes, there’s value in it. There’s nobility in the climb.

But we can get so obsessed with the path that the idea of actually arriving starts to feel like a threat. Because what happens when you no longer have to prove yourself through struggle? Who are you when you don’t have to fight?

Let me be clear — arrival isn’t an event.It’s not a house, a job, or a relationship.It’s a choice. A spiritual decision.

Even with court hearings still pending, with questions still unanswered — I paved the side of my house. I lit my candles. I unpacked my things. Because while I’m here, I’m living.

It’s a spiritual decision to say:

I am here.I am living.I am no longer waiting to see how it all turns out before I start enjoying my life.

Live. Here.

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