Life often feels chaotic, with people around us struggling through difficult circumstances. When someone's world is spinning out of control, they need someone to be their constant - a steady, unchanging presence. Joseph's response to Mary's unexpected pregnancy provides a powerful example of choosing to stay present rather than backing away. Instead of playing unhelpful roles like the avoider, escalator, or fixer, we can choose to be the reliable person who travels alongside others during their storms. Simply being present can transform both their experience and ours.