We Lift Up

Romance Without the Gurus: Real Talk About Dating, Courting & Choosing Right


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The internet is full of relationship gurus telling you how to date, who to marry, and what love should look like. But most of it is toxic, manipulative, or just flat-out unbiblical. In Week 3 of our Love Series, Rev. TJ Frederick cuts through the noise and offers real, grounded wisdom for singles, couples, and married people navigating romantic love.

In this episode, we cover: Why toxic relationship gurus are destroying genuine connection, the difference between dating, courting, and intentional pursuit, and the red flags you shouldn't ignore (and green flags you should look for)

This episode is for you if you:

  • Are single and tired of bad dating advice
  • Are in a relationship and want to build something real
  • Are married and need a reminder of what you're fighting for
  • Feel pressure to perform in relationships instead of being yourself
  • Want biblical wisdom without purity culture shame
  • Believe love is a choice, not just a feeling
  • Are done with the games and ready for something genuine

This is Week 3 of our Love Series. We've talked about loving yourself and loving your neighbor. Now we're talking about romantic love—the kind that requires intentionality, devotion, and the willingness to choose someone even when it's hard.

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We Lift UpBy Rev. TJ Frederick