Three obstacles to male recognition of female infidelity: 

1. a kind of high-minded attitude that “my wife simply isn’t ‘that kind’ of woman,” which usually amounts to wishful thinking;

2. an invalid inference from the wife’s lack of interest in sexual relations with them to a lack of sexual interests generally; and 

3. a failure to discuss and compare notes on marital problems with other men, as women routinely do with one another. 

Review of:

1. Michelle Langley, Women’s Infidelity: Living In Limbo