This week we continue our series on Building Better Marriages by asking the question, What Does Better Look Like? This week Pastor Mike covers the RULES OF ENGAGEMENT, as he shares guidance & wisdom when "fighting" with your Spouse. “All couples fight, but healthy couples fight fair. Unhealthy couples fight dirty, with below-the-belt jabs, sucker punches, angry accusations, and bitter grudges. Healthy couples fight for resolution. Unhealthy couples fight for personal victory.” - Craig & Amy Groeschel “From This Day Forward”Think “team” not “me”And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.Ephesians 5:21 NLTSo again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.Ephesians 5:33 NLTDecide when you are going to address the issue.Agree on rules of EngagementStart with PrayerTrust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.Proverbs 3:5-6 NLTFind a Solution TogetherUnderstand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.James 1:19 NLTWork the SolutionAllow God to do a work in you first. Ask God to heal your relationship. Apply God’s plan for healing and restoration. -------------------We pray this message blesses you, speaks to your heart, and challenges you to grow!-------------------We’d love to connect with you!! Fill out a digital connect card to let us know you are here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youarevital.churchcenter.com/people/forms/586822-------------------The Vital Church Family is Busy Busy… Growing Together, Serving, and Learning!! Check Out Upcoming Events: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youarevital.churchcenter.com/registrations-------------------www.youarevital.church