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S012 – Dating App Burnout? This Woman Built a Wildly Successful Singles Club Instead! No Swiping. No Ghosting. Real Love Starts with a Run!
In this episode of Beyond Compatibility, I sit down with Victoria Brito, the founder of FitMeet Berlin—a fitness and social club helping singles in Berlin connect through shared movement, games, and low-pressure events. Victoria shares her own experience dating in Berlin for five years, the dating fatigue that inspired her to take action, and how she built a thriving community of over 3,000 members.
💡 About Victoria:Originally from Brazil and raised in the US, Victoria blends warmth, humor, and strategic thinking to create real-world spaces where singles can meet intentionally—without the stress of dating apps. Through running events, volleyball, yoga, and even themed games, she's changing the dating narrative, one meetup at a time.
We dive into:
📍 Why Victoria quit the apps and how offline dating changed her perspective
📍 The magic of shared physical activity—what running reveals about someone's character
📍 How FitMeet uses black clothing as a subtle signal of availability
📍 The importance of vibe-checks over high-pressure speed dating
📍 How the community grew from a WhatsApp message to thousands of members
📍 Navigating dating with honesty and respect: Victoria’s golden rules for showing up
📍 Dating fatigue, love bombing, and Berlin’s unique challenges
📍 The future of FitMeet: from Berlin to a multinational network
Whether you’re tired of swiping or just want a new way to meet kind, like-minded people, this episode is packed with laughs, stories, and real talk about building connection in a disconnected world.
🎧 Tune in and let’s dive in!
📌 Follow Victoria!
📌 Follow FitMeet!
📌 Follow Beyond Compatibility!
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00:00 Quick Promo
02:00 Meet Victoria Brito!
04:00 What Exactly Is FitMeet?
10:24 From Dating Fatigue to Founding a Movement
12:16 Why Dating in Big Cities Feels So Broken
15:08 How a Running Club Turned Into a Dating Revolution
21:41 Real Love Stories from FitMeet
23:09 Honest Dating Tips for Men
28:42 The Wild Story of How Victoria Met Her Boyfriend
34:02 Dating Advice for Women: Be Open, Be Kind
36:15 The Future of FitMeet & Victoria’s Vision
43:45 The Rise of Offline Dating & What’s Changing
44:44 Berlin Dating Horror Stories (You’ll Relate)
51:07 Men vs. Women: Building Understanding, Not Walls
54:16 Final Thoughts & How to Connect with Victoria
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By Lucas LoberIn this episode of Beyond Compatibility, I sit down with Victoria Brito, the founder of FitMeet Berlin—a fitness and social club helping singles in Berlin connect through shared movement, games, and low-pressure events. Victoria shares her own experience dating in Berlin for five years, the dating fatigue that inspired her to take action, and how she built a thriving community of over 3,000 members.
💡 About Victoria:Originally from Brazil and raised in the US, Victoria blends warmth, humor, and strategic thinking to create real-world spaces where singles can meet intentionally—without the stress of dating apps. Through running events, volleyball, yoga, and even themed games, she's changing the dating narrative, one meetup at a time.
We dive into:
📍 Why Victoria quit the apps and how offline dating changed her perspective
📍 The magic of shared physical activity—what running reveals about someone's character
📍 How FitMeet uses black clothing as a subtle signal of availability
📍 The importance of vibe-checks over high-pressure speed dating
📍 How the community grew from a WhatsApp message to thousands of members
📍 Navigating dating with honesty and respect: Victoria’s golden rules for showing up
📍 Dating fatigue, love bombing, and Berlin’s unique challenges
📍 The future of FitMeet: from Berlin to a multinational network
Whether you’re tired of swiping or just want a new way to meet kind, like-minded people, this episode is packed with laughs, stories, and real talk about building connection in a disconnected world.
🎧 Tune in and let’s dive in!
📌 Follow Victoria!
📌 Follow FitMeet!
📌 Follow Beyond Compatibility!
🔗 YouTube
🔗 TikTok
00:00 Quick Promo
02:00 Meet Victoria Brito!
04:00 What Exactly Is FitMeet?
10:24 From Dating Fatigue to Founding a Movement
12:16 Why Dating in Big Cities Feels So Broken
15:08 How a Running Club Turned Into a Dating Revolution
21:41 Real Love Stories from FitMeet
23:09 Honest Dating Tips for Men
28:42 The Wild Story of How Victoria Met Her Boyfriend
34:02 Dating Advice for Women: Be Open, Be Kind
36:15 The Future of FitMeet & Victoria’s Vision
43:45 The Rise of Offline Dating & What’s Changing
44:44 Berlin Dating Horror Stories (You’ll Relate)
51:07 Men vs. Women: Building Understanding, Not Walls
54:16 Final Thoughts & How to Connect with Victoria