Weapons are used to attack an enemy, or to defend oneself from an enemy. Men are taught, even at the earliest of ages, to use their dicks to cope with life. Did your peers tease you at school today? Jerk off. Did something bad happen at home? Jerk off. In relationships, men also use their dicks to cope with feelings and emotions as related to their partners. Unfortunately, this coping strategy often serves as a means for the man to attack or defend himself against his own partner.