The first thing that a man will say when he is caught cheating is, ”It‘s not what it looks like!” His world will be closing in on him and he will see everything that he loves and holds near and dear to his heart slipping through his fingers. So, why did he cheat in the first place, and why do his instincts lead him to say the most ridiculous thing that a woman could imagine - that the situation is not what it seems to be? Once again, Mistress Alisa is here to provide clarity on the situation.