Most people have no idea what sex really is and are still holding onto distorted images of it. So, today on Radical Intimacy, we are discussing six things that everyone needs to know about sex! Tuning in, you’ll hear all about sex as a state of being instead of a state of doing, why having an orgasm shouldn’t be the goal of sex, thoughts on blue balls, and so much more! We delve into why pleasure is a necessary ingredient for life before discussing what causes us to disconnect from our sexuality. We go on to explain why no one ever owes anyone sex (even in relationships), balancing that right with the sexual needs we all have, and the power of intimacy outside of the bedroom. You’ll even learn about how the nervous system shapes ‘good’ sex. Finally, we talk about the spiritual side of sex and why sex can be an awakening. This is an episode that everyone needs to listen to, so be sure to tune in now and share it with your partner and/or friends! 

Key Points From This Episode:

• How knowing these six things about sex will make the world a bit better. 
• Why sex isn’t something we do, it’s something we are. 
• Zoë explains why orgasm is not the goal of sex. 
• Why we don’t believe that blue balls are a real thing. 
• Pleasure is your birthright; it is not optional! 
• Where disconnection in partnership and sexuality comes from. 
• Why you are not entitled to your partner’s body.
• How intimacy outside the bedroom sets relationships up for success. 
• Why your nervous system needs to be relaxed to enjoy sex. 
• How to help your partner regulate and soothe their nervous systems. 
• Why sex can be a path to an awakening and the power of presence. 

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