What does it mean when a woman says that she loves hard? Can a woman love hard and be Dominant, at the same time? For women who want to embrace true Female Dominance, a shift has to take place in the way that they think about love and relationships. If you are going to lead in your relationship, you cannot simultaneously be the vanilla woman who passively sits by and waits for the guy to get a clue, show up, and engage with you the way that you want. Let’s talk!