Most of us have grown up in cultures that say that love conquers all. The message is clear in our movies, in our music, and in various art forms, that as long as two people love each other, and that if a person loves us enough that everything will be okay. And we think that if the other person can just accept our love that everything will be okay. Today, let’s talk about the insidious nature of the working definition of ’love’ that most of us are using. Let’s clear this word up.