The definition of insanity is: doing the same thing over and over again, while expecting different results. How many years will you keep approaching life and relationships the same way, and expecting for a different outcome to emerge? If romantic partners have a pattern for how they interact with you, then surely you have a pattern for how you interact with them. Let’s look at the top 10 disappointing aspects of relationships that people experience, and let’s talk about how to address those issues.