When men think about submitting to a Dominant woman they instinctively feel like they are giving up power and control. That actually feels negative to me. As a woman, even I am uncomfortable with such a scenario. I teach men that submission is about learning how to trust their female significant other to love them to the point that their needs will be met - happily, enthusiastically, sincerely, and even abundantly. But first, men - you’ve got to learn how to take your sticky little fingers off of it!