Today’s episode of Kink Friendly will serve two purposes. On one hand, I want to help men to understand what goes on in the hearts and minds of women when we throw tantrums. On the other hand, I want to help women to make better choices, especially those of us who want to lead in our relationships. Remember, ladies, we can’t lead and play the victim card at the same time. Learn the art of healthy communication so that you and your partner can talk things through.